Of course, easier said than done. I'm still working on this myself. I find myself bending over backwards to be there for people because I want to be that person. This is the key question for me: WOULD the person do it if you asked them to? If the answer is no, then screw 'em. Say "no" with a smile on your face (or the "get back to you" thing).
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Date: 2006-12-03 07:04 pm (UTC)Of course, easier said than done. I'm still working on this myself. I find myself bending over backwards to be there for people because I want to be that person. This is the key question for me: WOULD the person do it if you asked them to? If the answer is no, then screw 'em. Say "no" with a smile on your face (or the "get back to you" thing).