From the convent to the rectory, and over in the sacristy

I feel like its a bad desire. I think its a good think to want to be involved in the lives of people around you, it builds a solid social network. But when it becomes as onesided as some of my interactions have, it crosses the line from trying to be a commited and involved friend in to dependency.

I guess that wanting to be needed is okay (in my mind), but NEEDING to be needed is a bit unhealthy.